21% Str8 men wanks to Gay Porn

A study from the Archives of Sexual Behaviour spoke with 821 guys about what they wank off to. No surprising that 98.3% of gay men admitted to watching gay porn in the last month, while 96% of bisexual men did too. But most importantly 21% of straight men also reported stroking their almighty to gay porn. The 21% are of course the straight men who were […]

Sexual Healers

Like if you see someone who is great with math, he absolutely loves it, he thinks about it all day long constantly trying to figure things out mathematically… you don’t call him an addict, you suggest he might enjoy a career in doing something with Math. Logical, right? Sex IS the same. Todd Perkins explains. It’s just not something that your typical High School guidance counselor would […]

Peacemakers and Light bringers

Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs are from kabbalah. You know that I despise the Kabbalah Centre to which Madonna is attached. One of the ideas is that the universe-the big bang, happened when we wanted the right to self-create, and god, being a loving god, filled the vessel in which […]

worshipping the self

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my orgasms. In search of that ultimate orgasm, I explored Tantric and Taoist massage, long sessions of breathing exercises with the Enemagra and the Pantra, meditation under the influence of Cannabis. And yes, slowly […]

a lustful agreement

This is all very intellectual and brain driven and very little attention given to the libido with its own selection of responses to various stimuli. I have found in my lifetime that the more I profess confusion and fight being categorised the less pleasure I get from my sex. If both your brain and your penis come to some lustful agreement then go in the direction of that urge. Worry […]

How to have the Best Sex of your life

It’s all about trust, truth and respect for yourself. Don’t be shy. You will be best at sex that involves getting what you really want. Never forget that. If you want to have really good sex, it has to involve you getting what YOU really WANT/NEED. Practising asking for what you really want/need as this brings greater awareness, communications and sexual pleasure. Every Time you have […]

65 years old wanker

I am 65 years old wanker. I get a erection every morning when i awAke and have EROTIC dreams of Brazilian men and like the way I climax every time. I see one even Indian men the way their penises are from some uncut I think getting circumcision is cruel to get males this way. I was planning to get my penis reconstruction and have foreskin […]

a sexual awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy the various sections. I love the masculine manner you approach the issue of male sexuality and the sexuality that exists between men, gay or str8. You seem to deal with male sexual hunger […]

GROWING TO WHITE HEAT

When the soul is plunged in the fire of divine love, like iron, it first loses its blackness, and then growing to white heat it becomes like unto the fire itself. And lastly, it grows liquid, and, losing its nature, is transmuted into an utterly different quality of being. And as the difference between iron that is cold and iron that is hot, so is the […]

New Sexuality

 Hi Seb, I always enjoy reading your thoughts, ideas and wisdom. I think you should write a book called something like the “New Sexuality” which every man should read! When I first came across your website I had pomised myself a session with you but alas for me you are now retired I believe. Well, hope you are enjoying great fulfillment with what you are doing […]