Part of it might be what pop culture implies about being gay. (Bisexuals don’t exist in pop culture.) While the stereotypes about gay men are largely done with, there’s still a belief in some essential difference. This is actually kinda funny to me. From puberty to college, I had a number of male sexual partners. Guys my own age. Athletes mostly. But no oral or anal, just a lot of circle jerks, hand jobs, and frot. Most of them are straight. A few are openly bi. Hell, if we didn’t get laid after a date (a.k.a. 99% of teenage dates), we’d relieve each other’s blue balls. Jon
circle jerks hand jobs frot

Sword fights. With that special blade between your legs. Aficionados love the “love/fight” dichotomy.
can anyone explain what frot means
https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Frot
http://frotworld.blogspot.com.br/p/frottage.html?m=1