jesus saves

i need relief! every day is the constant battle with what i want.. and what i beieve is right. In less than a month i will be an 19yr old with a deep secret. im afraid im gay…i hav had a girlfriend for 18 months now and i cant connect with her. being raised a christian and still being one, i am so confused.. streched.. lost..i dont know what to do, or where im at? i live in south brisbane australia and need answers. as all this is the biggest secret of my entire life, i keep discreet. plz help. mitch


It has been my experience that very few straight women are happy to share their gay boyfriends with their gay boyfriends. Unfortunately, this requires you to make a choice. Since your preferences are gay, how have you ever been involved with a woman for such a long time (18 months)? Is she satisfied to have so little of your life and so little of your concern? If your answer is no… that you’re getting some flak from your inattention to her needs, then you need to start to set your life to rights. I consider myself to be a devout Christian, and I was married heterosexually long enough to father two children, and to adopt another (13 years). Eventually, it became clear that our marriage wasn’t going to work. We divorced, which I’m sure wasn’t pleasing to God, but all of my children preferred to live with me. I was the better parent, my ex-wife knew it, and I knew it. I just bought a bigger apartment. My youngest is 43, my oldest, 50. It has worked out for all concerned, though I haven’t heard my ex-wife’s opinion in some years (thank God!). If you’re worried about how God will judge you, imagine how he’ll judge you if you make the remainder of your life miserable, and the remainder of your girlfriend’s life miserable, as well. And you have to consider the happiness of children that may come along as well. I promise that you can be profoundly happy, and Godly, loving your boyfriend and doing together what the two of you enjoy… RobtheElder

find a close friend like I have that you trust and will be friends with for the rest of your life. david and jonathon were best friends and love each other in all ways. you still date women and should marry and have children, but you should have a specal friend to get away with and enjoy man to man time. You can come here and we can be best friends and enjoy each other from time to time. Peace, jase are tremendous gay christian music artist and can help you. I am gay and a christian and came out 12 years ago and am glad I did. You can be gay and christian. Don’t dispair and whatever you do, don’t give up. Bob 

 Mitch, Just relax. You have plenty of time to figure this out. You do not have to decide–just explore and be open to the possibilty of what is right for you. You will or probably already know in you heart. It is okay to be gay and there is help out there I am sure even downunder. Look for a gay and lesbian youth group for support and for help about coming out if you decide to do so.. Gary, USA


HEy Mitch I kmow how you feel i was raised a chiristian too but around 7th grade i started realizing men in a different way but it was hard for me to believe that i was gay. but then i started realizing that god loves everybody and if he was the true god they talk about in the bible then youll go to heaven. But if you think your gay come out to close friends,theyll love you no matter what but stay in your comfort zone dont think now that your gay you have to come out to the world take babysteps and youll be alright. any more questions yoiu can email me Jake P


Hi Mitch, I can understand your gay secret,i suggest you get in touch with your local (MCC) Metropolitan Community Church and have a talk . It is OK to be a christian and gay as i am, and Jesus does not discriminate its only the main line christian churches . Have a look at this web site and listen to the first 3 minute video and also the sydney MCC website is  Best Wishes, Dick Watson


being gay isnt an evil thing, ive been gay all my life and i am happy with who i am. my boyfriend loves me and i love him. give it a try and you may be the happiest you have ever been. buzz

4 thoughts on “jesus saves

  1. Dude, you are in a hard place (no pun intended). Many people feel as if their bodies are their indentifier; how they feel is what they are. I am older than you, but have the same struggle. I love being with men, but feel in my Christian walk I have to abstain from the wants of my body and focus more on the wants, needs of my spirit, they are not the same. It is a struggle, no one can dispute that, “letting go and letting God,” take over maybe the best course of action to take. But it is easier said than done, as in which way do I go? “Eunuchs,” that some teach from Mtt. 19:12 is actually of castration, not of being born, the making of, or by choice one to be homosexual. Being anything in the flesh is usually the results of a taste of (sin) in the flesh, as like gluttony and lust of the eyes; these feed our flesh, “sensual-touch” feed our minds into thinking “this touch that I feel is what I want, it must be me.” This “feeling” comes from our natural state our sin nature, before God. If you recall, Satan tricked Eve into thinking by going against God, her eyes would be opened. In reality her eyes became blind. And so did they of Adam, which caused us all to be born blind to the things of God.
    Sexual-sins are most of all the most devout of our sin nature because of the intimacy we feel. Don’t be fooled into thinking “you are what you feel,” remember Adam, he felt that Eve was unto something; look where that got us.

  2. Enjoy what you have, but you are mixed up and don’t know the truth.

    Yes, many Christian men do have homosexual desires. Jesus Christ want’s obedience to his word and people to trust him. They that Love Jesus Christ will keep his word.

    Salvation is believing his word and what he says and is a free gift to all mankind. After you are saved he wants you to grow in the grace and knowledge of his word. He wants to be your best friend and take you away from all sin. He is also the only one who can deliver you from loneliness.

    Sin is missing the mark of not being perfect, Only Jesus Christ was perfect. Even if we are perfect we could only pay for ourselves and we still wouldn’t go to heaven. Going to Heaven is only by trusting Jesus Christ as your savior and not by works. Works come after you trusted him.

    As for Hell, Jesus is the one who teaches us about it and it was supposed to be for the Devil and his demons. But when Mankind sins and hates Jesus Christ they have no other place to go except Hell. Death is two parts, Physical separation from the body. Separation from GOD(Jesus Christ). He will not let any sin in heaven.

  3. All power to you. You might eventually realise that being gay is the best thing that happened to you. You deserve all the love and respect in the world. You will eventually realise that the only people that don’t accept you are bitter, hateful individuals. You don’t need them in your life.

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