Hi Mr Cox, Great website !! thank you. I love it. I’m a 57yr old gay guy, who has both cock and anal orgasms, though I have never had one from being penetrated. Most guys seem to want to bang hard, and this doesn’t allow my own arousal to surge.
I’ve always had loads of pre-cum and when I was younger it would soak the front of my jeans. A well-lubed cock and nipple play is very important, for my pleasure (olive oil or vaseline if I’m a bit dry). The wanking technique and fantasy can take me in either direction. Wanking, I can have full-body multiple orgasm, which I can prolong, for hours when I was younger, with the risk of tennis elbow though. For anal orgasm I have lighter touch (barely any usually) just on the head of my wet nob, rather than strokes, and fantasize about being penetrated, rather than penetrating. Light nipple play is crucial here too. With very slight flexing of arse and prostate muscles, after a while it lets rip. Fortunately, I live in the country, for when it comes, I can ROAR and also have multiple convulsions. (At one time, I stopped coming with guys, cause I felt I was being viewed as a freak). I am able to have anal orgasm, even if I’ve had a lot of sex and cant get a full erection. Joy, oh Joy !! Best wishes, Jim