HELP!

I am not an ugly man. I am 59 and still alive. I feel like maybe the area I live in is homophonic. I get treated like I am scum of the earth. […]

Nothing Hurried!

I think that connection is the most important thing. Would love my manhood massaged as part of a full experience. It s not only about the act itself, but more of who, where […]

Sexual Desires

Most of the reason it took me so long to just enjoy guys is cultural — American culture and its fear of pleasure. But there’s more: I like nothing more than seeing a […]

The HaPenis Dance

If anyone asks you how the perfect satisfaction of all our sexual wanting will look, lift your face and say, Like this? I have always been intrigued as to how one could infuse […]

Become A Cock Whisperer

Have you whispered to him what you truly love about his cock? Men often have hang ups around the appearance, smell and taste of their own penis. Hearing you talk about his cock […]

The KnoBledge Awards

October 2021 Beyond The Pale is literally bursting with KnoBledge. It offers “AN INTRODUCTION” to Sexual Self-Determination. BroSites of The Month October 2021. Beyond The Pale Previous Winners of The KnoBledge Awards

Do What Thou Wilt

Ruff asks, In your belief, can a single gay man preform sex magick properly or does there always need to be a woman as a representation of the goddess?” In a lot of […]

Strange Business

You sit here for days saying, This is a strange business. You’re the fucking strange business. You have the energy of the sun in you, but you keep knotting it up at the […]

Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal […]

Complete & Repeated

Dear Mr Cox, I’m writing with a question – but first let me just say that you have what I think is a very enlightened and enlightening website. Personally, I find the references […]

Sex Is About Power

What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of […]

Daoist Wanking

Daoism asks for wanking without preconceived ideas. It is an ancient Chinese philosophy that is about wanking that lets you better understand yourself, sexually. Daoist wanking is about simplifying wanking in a honest […]

Sex Yourself?

A study in Psychology Today, found a great misconception about men’s masturbating habits is that if they’re in a sexually healthy relationship, they’ll masturbate less. However this isn’t the case. “Masturbation isn’t a […]

Listen To Yourself

Listen to yourself to the subtle flows of emotion, desire coursing through your body. You need not conform to any boxes, any borders. Desires overflow these simple lines designed to control, to contain. […]

Finding Yourself

When you find yourself with the Beloved, embracing for one breath, In that moment you will find your true destiny. Alas, don’t spoil this precious moment. Moments like this are very, very rare. […]

21% Str8 Men Wank 2 Gay Porn

A study from the Archives of Sexual Behaviour spoke with 821 guys about what they wank off to. No surprising that 98.3% of gay men admitted to watching gay porn in the last […]

SEXUALLY REPRESSED

With sex openly discussed on TV, in magazines and on the internet have we finally thrown off the crushing of our Victorian ancestors? Or is the reality that we are just fooling ourselves, […]