Peace & Manhugs

So you have a problem with the word ”gay”, but you like to have sex with men? …. normally this is where the accusations of hypocrisy and internalized homophobia, and other vapid comments […]

HaPenis Endings

 The rise of the ‘bromances’ mean the end of heterosexuality, academics have warned, after discovering that many men find their close male friendships more emotionally satisfying than relationships with women. Intense male friendships […]

Curious Straight Bi

I’ve heard it over a 1,000 times. it’s almost a shame you don’t know it, but you curious straight or bi guys are far more numerous than you’d think, and so is that […]

Less Than 4%

In a survey carried out on the HaPenis Project website slightly less than 4% of Men described themselves as “Exclusively Heterosexual” The survey used the 7 categories from Kinsey Heterosexual–Homosexual Rating Scale,  is […]

Heterosexual Propaganda?

“Will patrols his heterosexuality like a prison guard who has recently lost faith in the penal system. Or maybe one who favours reform of the penile system (thanks and sorry . . .).”  […]

If He Only Knew

I’m not a fan of labels. I am attracted to women, but there is something about a hot, muscled up stud with a big cock that really gets me going. I’m 50 and […]

Male Sexual Fluidity

This site is an open door to some of the most haunting questions we males face. I am married in my late 50’s. I love my wife and all we have built in […]

The HaPenis Buoy

I am a man who considers myself to be essentially 100% str8 but I have slept with lots of men and have recently been seeing a man in a full-blown relationship. When I say […]

First Hand Experiences For Loving Men

So you’re 21. I was 23 when I got married. This was before the internet, before being gay was acceptable. By the age of 23 I had a lot of heterosexual encounters. I […]

One Puff Can Make You Gay

I was reading on some website a discussion about the strange occurrence of cannabis smokers wanting to worship cock when high. One bloke wrote ‘I’m quite a hardcore pothead, I feel very heterosexual, i […]

Gangbangs & Double Penetration

I am married to a wonderful woman and I love her. I have a lot of great mates. Some of them very good looking. I’ve recently started to look at some porn on […]

Sauna Me@t

Could you please tell us about the most beautiful HaPenis you have ever seen in a sauna. Is their a sauna local to you, where we could meAt.

Heteroplatonic

Thanks, your article is a revelation to me. I have long known intuitively sexuality is far more complex than just the straight-gay-bi continuum which is why I have always been unable to define […]

The Place Where We Are Right

From the place where we are right Flowers will never grow In the spring. The place where we are right Is hard and trampled Like a yard. But doubts and loves Dig up […]

Heterosexual Porn

There’s porn and there are gay people. But is there “gay porn?” Or is it simply porn featuring people of the same gender having sex together? If it’s “gay porn,” then virtually no “straight” people would be […]

haven’t had hetero sex for 40 year

i am nearly eighty years old, i jack off every day and usually spend hours every day watching gay porn and edging, absolutely love it, always eat my cumm. i try not to […]

Sacred Slut

Close you eyes and think of someone you really like and find sexually attractive. I want you to imagine meeting them at your favourite restaurant. Relaxing with them and having something really delicious […]