A Deep Desire for Masculine Intimacy

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Ecstatic Path

How do you know when your heart is ready?You who long to be touchedwith love and kindnessDeeply and tenderlyYou who yearn to be cared forHonoured and seenIn all of your vulnerable nakedness…Come lay […]

So What Does The Sacred Masculine Mean To You?

Masculinity has a core of clarity, which does not act from anger or greed. The virile center that listens within takes pleasure in obeying that truth. Nobility of spirit, the true spontaneous energy […]

A Community?

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Your Sacred Journey

I  have been happily married for many years now. I need some advice and am not sure who to talk to. Even though hetero in my sexual orientation, sometimes. I fantasise about having […]

Sexy Transmutation

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No Lips Below the Hips

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Str8 Married Massaged

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undress your conscience

It’s beautiful when you find someone that is in love with your mind. Someone that wants to undress your conscience and make love to your thoughts. Someone that wants to watch you slowly take  […]

The Greatest Gift

We should all listen to the heart when it beats faster, usually that heart knows what it”s doing, beholden, when my eyes met his there have been many, but not like this and […]

Older Men

I might just be gay for older men. Their maturity and self acceptance puts me at ease to have non-judgmental fun. We can be ourselves and explore our desires. I have 3 friends I […]

Mature Youth

It is not a matter of red cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is a temper of the will; a quality of the imagination; a vigor of the emotions; it is a […]

A Glimpse of Paradise

I am sitting quietly in a white, wide, smooth wooden floored hallway facing, a few yards ahead of me, a doorway. I can see in an adjacent room a naked cellist playing Bach. […]

I don’t feel lonely anymore

I’m a married man in my 50’s. I love my wife and family and I’ve been always attracted to men, since I was a kid. I have come to terms with my masculinity: […]

Peacemakers and Light bringers

Gay mens true role in the highest sense is to be peacemakers and light bringers. Some of my ideas and beliefs are from kabbalah. You know that I despise the Kabbalah Centre to […]

The Beauty of Youth

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the manly love of comrades

Passing stranger! you do not know how longingly I look upon you. You must be he I was seeking, I was seeking, (it comes to me, as of a dream,) I have somewhere […]

Russian Mamil

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New Sexuality

Hi Seb, I always enjoy reading your thoughts, ideas and wisdom. I think you should write a book called something like the “New Sexuality” which every man should read!When I first came across […]

Spiritual HaPenis?

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