I am 21 years old and I am what you might call, bi curious. I have only admitted that I was questioning my own sexuality to one person, and it was someone I didn’t know. This is the second time I am admitting it. A question I really want to ask you guys is this. How do I know if I’m gay. Here are my symptoms:

1) I enjoy anal stimulation from my girlfriend and from myself

2) I jerk off to gay porn, but only bondage or kinky stuff.

3) I have fantasized about being pleased by other males that I know in real life, or males that I dont know..

I think my family and friends might know i’m gay, but I can’t admit it and the fact that they MIGHT know makes me lose my breath…I find it humiliating...I need someone to talk to about this, hopefully someone who has been in the same situation or something close to it please leave a message. Thank you for running this site !

Anon

It sounds to me like you are into guys but you really won’t know for sure until you have sex with one. If having a man’s face and possibly cock up your ass doesn’t make your eyes go back in your head and make you feel as if you’d never had sex before, then you might not be gay! But if it does… BINGO! Then you’re a certified cock sucker. Be proud of it. Seriously. You can’t change it. Believe me, I’ve tried. I got married, had kids, stayed away from gyms and men in general. But no matter what I couldn’t run away from the truth. After 14 years, dick finally drew me in and once I had a taste, that was it. You can’t deny who you are and you SHOULDN’T deny it! Find the truth and you’ll find happiness. Find a gay friend to fuck with and see! 

John

It’s not about gay, straight or bi, it’s about male sexuality. I don’t have gay sex, I have guy sex. Only a guy can fully understand what another guy needs and feels. I enjoy giving that intense pleasure to other guys and them giving it to me. It is an amazing gift I am happy to share. 

Neilian

If you have fantasies about being with other men, that doesn’t mean you’re completely gay. You might be bi, or you might be bi-curious. I am without a doubt bisexual. I way prefer men over women, but I only consider myself bi because I have had sex with girls in the past.

Justin

7 thoughts on “How Do I Know?

  1. It’s been a while since this post, I would be really interested to find out anything from this dude since our advice to be true sexually, experimental and let go to enjoy himself. I’m sure it won’t have taken one man, sometimes that isn’t great so I would love to know where men stand in this picture.

  2. 1 is irrelevant. Plenty of gay men aren’t into anal; plenty of straight men are. Actually, prior to the 70s, oral and mutual jackoff were the dominant sex acts in gay male circles, though academics emphasized anal due to a curious bit of circular logic: You weren’t gay unless you conformed to their stereotype of what a gay man was, and that stereotype was a self-contradicting hot mess.

    2 and 3 sound like you may be bi, but you know? What’s with labels? The most important thing is being comfortable with yourself.

  3. If you have fantasies about being with other men, that doesn’t mean you’re completely gay. You might be bi, or you might be bi-curious. I am without a doubt bisexual. I way prefer men over women, but I only consider myself bi because I have had sex with girls in the past. But right now, I really want a man in my life. I am a Texas man, and am all over gay dating sites trying to find that perfect someone. By the way, if there are any ay men in Dallas looking for a long-term relationship (hopefully leading to marriage), my email address is justindonaldholder@yahoo.com. But to the point, for the person that blogged this, if you realize that you are gay or bi, do not be ashamed of it. It is just as natural as being straight.

  4. I’ve been through it I think we all have I knew was gay from the beginning but I was ashamed of what my mom would think but when I finally told her she said to me a mother doesn’t know everything but one thing a mother knows is her children she then revealed to me that she knew already I’m happy with who I am today a bottom looking for my top forever man

  5. It sounds to me like you are into guys but you really won’t know for sure until you have sex with one. If having a man’s face and possibly cock up your ass doesn’t make your eyes go back in your head and make you feel as if you’d never had sex before, then you might not be gay! But if it does… BINGO! Then you’re a certified cock sucker. Be proud of it. Seriously. You can’t change it. Believe me, I’ve tried. I got married, had kids, stayed away from gyms and men in general. But no matter what I couldn’t run away from the truth. After 14 years, dick finally drew me in and once I had a taste, that was it. You can’t deny who you are and you SHOULDN’T deny it! Find the truth and you’ll find happiness. Find a gay friend to fuck with and see!

  6. It’s not about gay, straight or bi, it’s about male sexuality. I don’t have gay sex, I have guy sex. Only a guy can fully understand what another guy needs and feels. I enjoy giving that intense pleasure to other guys and them giving it to me. It is an amazing gift . I am happy to share.

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