Hey, Mr Cox. I am a 33-year-old gay guy, from Sussex. The reason for my message is in regards to a couple of personal problems in which I am hoping you may be able to help me with. I have a very big cock and low hanging balls. I am suffering from Premature Ejaculation. Have been for quite some time now, it very annoying and frustration. I was wondering if you would have any written information, in which you are able to mail on too me. Also, I would like to ejaculate more cumm, can this be achieved. James

James

The longer you are able to wank the faster you will be able to learn ejaculation control. I recommend a book called Any Man Can by Hartman and Fithian, who were pioneering sex researchers. They concluded that men who can wank for 20 minutes can last as long as they like when it comes to having sex. The most important advice I can give to any-one who wants to wank for longer is that the secret is putting one hand on your cock and one hand on your belly to feel yourself breathe. Huge big deep breaths. Accepting pleasure, surrendering and allowing stillness and patience. It’s that simple. Every second is a celebration of righteousness. Spend some time without having A HARDON, you know the space between semi-erect and slightly less, that’s where you need to take your fattening cock. Thank God, everyday that you can ejaculate. I have men who cumm to experience my erotic massage who cannot, I know they would deeply love to be able to ejaculate, just one more time. As an exercise get your self really sexually aroused with the aim of ejaculating as quickly as you possibly can. Time yourself from the initial arousal through to your ejaculate. Keep a record of your achievements. If you practice your erotic ritual daily within a week you should be able to cut your time by about a third. In that practice you will of course have learned how to control your ejaculation.

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In my sexperience I can cum very quickly the first time, but it doesn’t feel very intense. The best is still to cumm. I can achieve orgasm several times per session. (And no they’re not ”female” multiple orgasms or anal orgasms or anything advanced like that. Regular male, short burst orgasms.) Of course, we’re talking sessions that last at least a couple of hours. The 2nd cumshot feels amazing, the 3rd has me reaching for the ceiling and moan loudly more or less involuntarily. The 4th just leaves me a drooling, dazed mess. This is typically what I would describe as my ”little death”. Case in point, your premature orgasms might be a blessing in disguise. Try finding guys who like long sessions, clear your schedule that entire day, and just lay in bed and just worship each other. You can cum whenever you want, no holding back, stress either way. Wish you all the best, brother. 

Ben

9 thoughts on “Premature Ejaculate

  1. I have the same issue but interestingly not always. I think it depends on the situation. Sometimes it can happen within seconds not even hard. The feeling is very intense and I can’t do anything to stop it. My cock starts pumping it out. I remember I had a situation where I sucked a guy off and I just came in my pants.

  2. In my sexperience I can cum very quickly the first time, but it doesn’t very very intense. The best is still to cumm. I can achieve orgasm several times per session. (And no they’re not ”female” multiple orgasms or anal orgasms or anything advanced like that. Regular male, short burst orgasms.) Of course, we’re talkning sessions that last at leest a couple of hours. The 2nd cumshot feels amazing, the 3rd has me reaching for the cieling and moan loudlt more or less involuntarily. The 4th just leaves me a drooling, dazed mess. This is typically what I would describe as my ”little death”.

    Case in point, your premature orgasms might be a blessing in disguise. Try finding guys who like long sessions, clear your schdule that entire day, and just lay in bed and just worship each other. You can cum whenever you want, no holding back, stress either way.

    Wish you all the best, brother. 🖤

  3. The first time I fucked a man, I was about 30 years old, and I came in 3 pumps.
    I had been fucking women since 15 years old and worked through my premature ejaculation problem early on. But I was shock that it had returned with my first fucking of another man. I remain hard and kept fucking him until he came, then I faked an orgasm, trying to pretend I didn’t cum quick – i was wearing a rubber so I figured Id get away with it. I didn’t. He knew. He smiled and said, “ wow you shot fast” , so I fessed up. He was in his 50s and much more experienced. He invited me to come over and fuck him once a week and promised to teach me how to hold back. He kept his promise. He instructed me to not look at my cock pushing in and pulling out of his hairy hole. He said the visual was too stimulating. He also made me count to 20 after my first thrust in and said not to pull back. That work well to desensitize me to the tightness of his hole, much tighter than any cunt I had fucked. He explained I just had to get over the psychology thrill of this new experience. In a few weeks I was lasting long. Within a few months, i was able to hold off and cum on demand, usually when he was cumming with me in him. He was a great teacher.

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