Mystical Communion

Getting older (early fifties) has not meant that the experience of sexuality, passion and desire has dissipated and petered out. On the contrary, advancing age has brought unexpected insights and surprises; new personal […]

Aphrodisiac’ Nutrients

This article will focus on food supplements that can enhance sexual pleasure and performance. Kian explains. Amino acids (AAs) AAs often occur in nature in two forms which are mirror image molecules, denoted […]

A Sexual Awakening

Hi Seb,  Just wanted to drop a note. I came across your site one day while surfing bored at work. It was bookmarked immediately and I have revisited many times since. I enjoy […]

worshipping the self

For years now, my sexual life has been about reconciling the joy of sex with the spiritual side of me, worshipping the divine presence I could feel, and sometimes truly see, in my […]

50% of Young Brits

According to A British Government Survey 50% of Young Brits are ‘not exclusively heterosexual. Half of young Brits say they are ‘not exclusively heterosexual’ with a quarter of all UK adults saying they are […]

A Handy Shandy

Took me a while to get to doing this. I like the honesty. We are there for the same thing. Usually no words, just nods and in for a handy shandy and one […]

“Freaky”

I am elated that I found this site! I am so incredibly in love with my boyfriend and we have incredible sex. It seems as though we naturally take sex to the next […]

Symposium (Plato)

The Symposium is a philosophical text by Plato dated c. 385–370 BC. It depicts a group of men, partying, drinking and talking about their love of cock.The men include the philosopher Socrates, the […]

Sex Is About Power

What did Oscar Wilde mean when he said,”Everything in the world is about sex except sex. Sex is about power.”? I heard about this quote on a podcast, and I instantly thought of […]

Capable of HaPenis?

How you choose to use your HaPenis energy depends on your courage to be honest with yourself and to explore and enjoy yourself. Satisfying yourself sexually is the key that opens the door […]

The Blessed Virgin

A contributor to a discussion group for masturbating catholic priests wrote the following that seems to show beautifully how masturbation can be turned into a truly spiritual Catholic experience. As a catholic priest for years, […]

The Art of Cruising

Dr Christopher White, Ph.D., is an expert in sexual and reproductive health with over 25 years of professional teaching experience. He says that the art of gay cruising dates back decades, to the […]